I hope your gut is wrong, I can see the US putting assets in Ukrainse, State Department, AID, Embassy, even Ukraine military for training in Poland or Romania with US military... and these assets being targeted.My gut tells me the Russian military will attack one or more American assets with cruise missiles by the end of the year. I wouldn't be surprised if it was a 9/11-type of attack on American soil, because there's no difference between OBL and Putin to me at this point.
Then we will have no choice but to open up the can and finish the matter.
My military training as a young man during the Cold War tells me not to be afraid of it, but relax, expect it, and let things play out as they will.
I can also see the spring offensive not going well and Russians calling for diplomacy but history says your gut is on too something...